gular, so unique. Who will listen to understand that uniqueness?"
习惯六：.Synergize
什么叫做Team？ Work together to achieve a common goal. 一个团队可不是那么容易形成的。过程大概是这样：FORM --> STORM --> NORM --> PERFORM
可见，团队最开始会有波动，然后才会达成共识，最后才能发挥效用，发挥一加一大于二的功效。
什么会成为团队形成的障碍呢？These obstacles are:
bias, arrogant, no responding, wrong perception, different paradigm, conflict of interest, etc.
Getting to Synergy:
You have your way, I have my way, there's always a better way.
We CHECK willingness
Reflect viewpoints and Create new ideas
then comes to the THIRD alternatives
案例用了两个：
1. Geese flying。 大雁飞行，结对人字形比单个的飞，效率上有71%的提升。还有其他很多points。
2. 3D的拼图游戏。看谁最快，看谁最有团队精神。
习惯七： Sharpen your saw
这个习惯是最外围的习惯，其实也就是一个不断自我更新自我提升的习惯，英文是renewal，或者recharge也行。要达到Work和Life的平衡就是在这个习惯上。从四个方面进行：Body，Heart，Mind，Soul。
这点比较有意思。起码对于我而言，我分不清楚后面四个单词的真正区别在哪里。这里给出书中的定义。
Body: You build physical wellness through proper nutrition, exercise, rest, and stress management.
Heart: You become stronger socially and emotionally by making consistent deposits into others' Emotional Bank Accounts.
Mind: You increase mental capacity by reading, writing, thinking, and discussing your ideas.
Soul: You develop spirituality by reading inspirational literature, mediating, performing service, and spending time in nature.
看到了吧，Body是身体了，Heart主要是指社交，Mind是自我的内在素养，Soul指的是精神层面的。我觉得Mind和Soul的区别是，Mind是精神世界的物质文明，Soul是精神世界的精神文明。